February 4, 2010

The Three Month Mark: Unfiltered.

Nice to see you again. Follow me, @SydneyOwen. Thanks for being here!

In response to Matt’s post today, I was going to comment and then I realized as I was commenting that my comment was long enough to be a post. So I’m sharing it with you here.

Matt’s post is talking about how to dive into blogging. At the end, he mentions that your first three months are going to suck. First three months? My first YEAR was difficult! I picked a niche that I actually knew virtually nothing about (looking back, I had no idea there was so much involved in social media and PR, and how much I had yet to learn) – and I felt like I had pigeon-holed myself as trying to be an “expert” in something I hadn’t even gotten my degree in yet. I felt guilty for wanting to write about what I was learning, what I was doing in my day-to-day life, and thus, Unfiltered came to be, a safe-haven for posts that were more about learning about LIFE, not exclusive to my passion for the social space and PR.

I’m not saying my blog isn’t what got me on the map. It most certainly has made a difference. But I think it’s important to go with the flow on blogging. As we evolve as people, we should allow our blogs to evolve with us. Sticking to a niche because that’s where you started and you’re afraid to deviate is robbing yourself and your community of good, passionate, honest writing.

Not to say that we should all go rogue and crazy and start blogging about ourselves and ourselves only. Passion doesn’t only lie in personal blogging, as is very apparent with Matt’s writing. As long as you have passion for what you’re writing about, be it love, politics, technology, your career, what have you, the rest will fall into place, the community will form, and you’ll be so addicted to sharing what you’re passionate about, that you will want to write ALL THE TIME.

Great takeaway from Matt’s post today: stop doubting and start doing.

I think as bloggers, we’ve all been there. Depending on what your topic du jour is, I think we’ve all had that split-second (and sometimes longer) where we hover over the publish button. Should we really post it? Are we ACTUALLY writing about this? I feel like the posts where I’ve hovered are the posts that people can relate to the most. Because it’s that fear that sometimes creates the greatest content.

If you are a blogger – what keeps you going? If you’re a reader, what keeps you coming back?

  • Sydney,

    I've been reading your blog for a few months and as a PR student, have been encouraged to see someone have a PR career and a blog that talks about life. My blog has focused a lot on PR, but you've got me thinking about opening up to more personal topics or at least mixing that in with PR/social media thoughts. I deal with "publish button hover syndrome" and really appreciate your thoughts about creating valuable, interesting content that evolves with your interests and who you are as a person. Thanks!
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  • "As we evolve as people, we should allow our blogs to evolve with us."

    YES. Yes, yes, yes. Hi, I've missed you online, by the way.

    What keeps me going? The inherent NEED to process my thoughts and feelings into words, and the community that has grown around opening up myself to feedback, new relationships, and brighter perspectives. I learn SO much from my readers and myself in the space here, and THAT keeps me going like the Energizer Bunny.
  • Writing + People + Cool Shit is the upside to blogging.

    My first blog was called PsychoticNormalcy and it's from a time when you had to link surf to find bloggers, and if you got lucky you found little nodes of people doing cool things on the platform. I wasn't doing cool things. I was totally uncomfortable with the concept, but I kept at it.

    Fortunately we had less yelling back then, and the real writers wrote things like How To Blog and they basically were just talking about how to write. Tony Pierce, for me, became my foundational 'how to do it' guy, and remains that.

    There's nothing braver than writing in front of people. And there's no right way to do it except doing it.
  • "There's nothing braver than writing in front of people. And there's no right way to do it except doing it."

    Amen to that.
  • Hi, Sydney!
    I couldn't agree more - I go all over the map; one day railing about my daughter's homework, and the next discussing gay marriage, but I write about what I care about, and I'm happy so far with the results.
    Especially as a reader, I appreciate it when I never know what they're going to write next. There are some how-to blogs that I read, but I rarely comment, and don't feel like I know the whole person the way that I know bloggers who don't stick to one niche.
  • This post is great. Not only am I certain that I need to get back in the saddle of regular blogging, but I'm lucky enough to sit down the hall from you & your total social media savvy. Looking forward to sharing ideas with you!
  • I think that you have to enter the blogging scene with a passion to write/share and that passion has to be strong in order to withstand the first months of blogging to yourself and your circle of six devoted friends (a.k.a. your 3 "test" email addresses and your parents/signif other). That passion is what keeps you going in the beginning and it's what keeps you on track when you do start to get some attention. For me, it's something I have to do. Regardless of the ridiculous nature of my content, my blog is a creative outlet and it keeps me going. I do enjoy comments from people who usually read "silently." It's always nice to get a "hey.. i secretly read your blog every day and i love it" type email.
  • I love this Sydney:

    "As we evolve as people, we should allow our blogs to evolve with us. Sticking to a niche because that’s where you started and you’re afraid to deviate is robbing yourself and your community of good, passionate, honest writing."

    This is the essence of what I was saying with my blog yesterday. It's more than OK to deviate from the "set" path you've created for yourself - that's when things get really interesting, when you put yourself outside that box and think/write in new ways. It's OK to be totally random and not appease to the masses every single day.

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  • I need to get back on track. I am not really sure why I stopped I just got caught up in life then I realized I didn't want to go on that track so I am going back to my roots. I have gotten caught in the happy to be commenting mode and haven't gone back to writing. I am still looking for a full time position and/or clients so I should be actively writing. That is one of my goals for this year I haven't even attempted this year.

    I love your insights which is why I keep coming back. Even if I am older than you by a few years I appreciate what you have to say and it is worth it.
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