January 11, 2010

Reading: Unfiltered

Nice to see you again. Follow me, @SydneyOwen. Thanks for being here!

There isn’t much that is more exciting than when you rediscover something that you had almost forgotten about. Unless maybe when it seems to find you. When you least expect it to come sneaking back into your life, shaking you to the core. You are convinced you don’t have time for it. You tell yourself there aren’t enough hours in the day. But when it does happen, it’s intense. It’s all-consuming.

I haven’t sat down and really read a book in what seems like forever. I’m sure it wasn’t that long ago, but for the sake of talking, let’s say 2005. Sure, I had dabbled here and there, reading for school, a couple PR books to keep my head in check, but for whatever reason, it seems like it has been awhile since I was in that place.

If you read, you know exactly what I mean.

You have a routine. A favorite spot. A placeholder, a bookmark, a dog-eared page. Something to hold your place until you’re ready to go back.

I remember the last time like it was yesterday yet it feels like another lifetime. I was working at Disney at the time. I was in entertainment; doing parades, character dining, and town square sets. (Note to my friends who may be unfamiliar with my Disney past, I was friends with some of your favorite characters.)

There’s a lot of down time between sets. And, being surrounded by creative people, entertainers, artists and actors, there were plenty of books to choose from. Most of which weren’t my cup of tea. A lot had flashy covers but lacked an intro that hooked you. Put it down. Some came highly recommended but just weren’t interesting. Put it down.

But eventually, I found one. It was an otherwise normal looking book, no shiny and snazzy cover like you see on hardback books before they get to the library. It looked kind of like a journal, a little worn on the outside. Not in a bad way, but in a way that you can tell that was somebody’s favorite book. That someone took that thing everywhere. I think that’s what drew me to it.

You know that moment? The moment when you first realize that you’re going to read this book cover to cover. The moment where you wish you were cuddled up in bed with a blanket and a thunderstorm, with nothing but time to finish the book.

I like this moment. One, because this is the best part of this process. With books by Nicholas Sparks (or, insert your favorite author here) this part is all smiles and it’s not scary and it’s fun and it just feels… right. The point when you thought for a second that you forgot what stupid smiley felt like.

I love this part.

When you can’t, and don’t want to, put the book down. The part before complications and walls and anything besides a goofy grin and butterflies because you realize that you can feel. That you’re not frozen.

I love this part. If you haven’t read Nicholas Sparks, think of the Notebook, when they were ridiculously happy, before she ran off and fell
In love with the other guy. Unless you’re totally void of any emotion, you know what I’m talking about. It’s beautiful.

The thing is, I never finished that book. But somehow, after all of these years, I’m starting it again. I found my place, and picked it up where I left off. I had to go back and read it since a lot of the events in the story were foggy, but I’m right back at it. And it’s like the first time I started reading it.

I love this part.

So, how do you feel about things from the past that come back into your life?

  • WAIT. THIS WAS A METAPHOR! :::blonde moment:::
  • bobbatchelor_ksu
    Please, please, Sydney, continue to advocate reading. [And for the smart-ass who busted on Nicholas Sparks, get off your high horse. One should nurture reading and find books that speak to themselves, regardless of whether or not it's been deemed acceptable by the intelligentsia}

    Reading is essential. And, reading books keeps one's mind limber in a way that essays and online content cannot. In my many years on the planet, I've witnessed that the smartest people I know are avid readers and indulge in a wide range of topics.

    I read a book today on leadership in the business world. Tomorrow I'm going to read another book -- probably John Hill's (of Hill & Knowlton) book on corporate PR written in the 1960s or a novel, who knows.

    Now onto your question: Reading always brings a serenity to my life that helps me reflect on where I'm at and who I am. It's the same feeling I remember as a little kid, curled up in a corner with a stack of comic books, trying to insulate myself from some of the sadness around me. This feeling returns each time I cozy up with a book and I'm thankful for it.
  • Good question...

    I think some things from the past can be good and they can help you find out where you have been and where you are going. FB is a great tool for doing this if you graduated long ago and you can find out things you didn't know about people too.

    I need to get reading though it isn't novels but biz books I have 12 of them to read. Plus more on the way. I need to do this and I think I will feel better about it when the stack goes down and they wind up on my book shelf because they are read.
  • You know you just made your mother's day right?

    If you were Teen-Sydney I would be expecting some breaking news about an unpleasant subject of one sort or another but that girl hit the road long ago. Good for you for getting back into it. If Nick Sparks led the way, kudos to him too. If he makes you hungry for more, even better.
  • Thank you for this. I just got back into reading, and it feels SO GOOD. The textbooks and academic articles were really getting to me. It took finally giving a few different pieces of fiction some chances to find out that reading what I enjoy is a favorite pastime. I'm determined to now make it an all-the-time.

    I got back into it this last month with somewhat of a beach-read, "All We Ever Wanted Was Everything." Now I'm on "The Help" and it's such a rewarding read!
  • TQ
    Sydney, I recommend the following short story collection: Voodoo Heart (http://www.amazon.com/Voodoo-Heart-Scott-Snyder...)
  • Girl! Last week, Tuesday night I bought Nicholas Spark's Dear John and had it finished by Thursday night because I could not put it down. I can COMPLETELY relate!
  • Ashli
    I know exactly what you're talking about! I remember the first time I read a book cover to cover (simply for pleasure) and I've been reading ever since. Like, I typically go through at least 1 book a week. It's my favorite thing to do. After a crazy hectic day it's nice to be able to come home and pick right back up where I left off reading the night before. Books are like best friends. They're always there.

    By the way, I also used to work in Disney Entertainment! I bet we were friends with some of the same characters. Quite an experience, wasn't it?
  • My absolute favorite book is a well-worn, hardcover copy of A Tree Grows In Brooklyn that was originally my mom's. I never had the paper jacket that went with it, but I think the plain green cover just adds to its appeal. There's something comforting and familiar about holding a favorite book in your hands, curling up with it and reading familiar words of which you never tire...

    This post couldn't be more timely, as I've always been a huge book nerd, but hadn't been reading as much in the past few years. Maybe it was overload from all those college lit courses, I can't be sure, but I was looking for really good books. You know: REALLY GOOD books, capital letters and all -- books that you can savor, just like you described, and I wasn't finding them. I've gotten that back recently, reading anything and everything I can get my hands on, that holds my interest. And I'm glad, because I think I've missed books for the very feelings that they evoke, as you've described.

    Nice post, Sydney -- I always love finding others who have passion for books and reading.
  • Stefan
    Sydney, I hate to tell you, but you're reading an author who writes for people who don't read. Congratulations on rediscovering that reading is, like, so cool, but would you ever consider reading anything decent or are just too contented with trash?

    Just think twice before lecturing people on the value of reading when your example is Nicholas Sparks. What's next? Are you going to tell us how you've rediscovered Italian food by going to Olive Garden? I'm glad you're embracing Chicago, but your cultural and aesthetic sensibilities are still stuck in Orlando.
  • I'm surprised that you and the first two commenters don't read much. I'm an avid reader, love reading, will read until I die. I have tons of books and a line of books continually in the hopper. I do understand it's difficult to find the time to read, however. I recommend traveling more, ha. I read a ton on vacations, business trips in airlines and airports, etc. Also, if you need recommendations on good books, I have a lot! :)
  • I WANT to read more - I keep telling myself that, but I really do! One book a month is my modest goal for 2010 - but that's 12 more books than I read in 2009, so that's a step in the right direction, right?

    When I laid out my goals for the year I told myself I would read more books and less blogs - not that there's anything wrong with a blog, but there is a LOT of value to be had out there between the pages...
  • I read like crazy when I was younger. Now I rarely read any physical books and instead do most of my reading online.

    Weird how that happened. Not sure if it's a good thing or a bad thing.
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