Asking for help is HARD, especially when you’re feeling down or depressed. Why? Because we shy away from it. Because it hurts our pride. And, because of this, it takes a work and energy, something you don’t have a lot of when you’re down and depressed.

That being said, admitting your weaknesses is THE BEST thing you can do for yourself at that point, and doing so is not a weakness. Knowing our weaknesses and shortcomings and DEALING with them shows tremendous wisdom and strength.

I used to be very bad about accepting the fact that I was weak. I was needy. But, this is simply life. Everyone needs help from others to survive.

And, I’m not sure about you, but most people actually enjoy giving. I certainly do! It makes me feel good. . . fulfilled in some way. In a way, you are actually doing the other person a favor when you ask for help.

So, again, great article!

I’m curious if this is more of a male trait due to our current societal norms?

Anyway, I try to remember two things. One was something Lewis Howes said:

“Need help with something ? Ask. It’s not an admission of weakness, but shows your determination to succeed.”

I REALLY like that.

The other is that I think people genuinely like to help, most people anyway. I always feel like I’m bugging people when I ask for a re-tweet or for someone to take a peak at a post I’ve written. They’re busy. I know I am.

BUT, then I recall situations where people ask me to re-tweet something for them, or check out a post. I don’t always have time to read the full post, but I don’t ever hold it against them for asking, and most of the time I’m happy to do it. What’s the worst that can happen?

Besides, if all of us “up-and-coming” bloggers help one another out more often we can potentially propel ourselves to the next tier in this huge social space.

Awesome insights Syd!